What are the things that you want to be different? Is there someone you would like to behave differently? Do you want you to behave differently? Are there situations in your life you would want to be different? Are there things that you would want to have? Or things that you would like to not have right now?
We are living in a fantasy world that we have created in our head. This fantasy world is a utopia for us. It is the idea of utopia for us. It is a world where everything is according to you. People behave differently in your fantasy. They are much sweeter and nicer to you. You have all your wishes fulfilled here. You have all the things you need. The environment you are living in is perfect. This fantasy world is always in the future. It is never here and now. It cannot be. How can your current present reality be a utopia? The very fact that you have a fantasy world in your head denotes that the present reality is not enough, not adequate, not perfect. It needs improvement. It needs work. Things, people, situations, conditions, environments need to be different than what they are right now. That’s always the case. The present moment is not enough. It is not good. The fantasy world that you create in your head gives you a kind of relief. It gives you hope that things are going to get better soon. The soon never comes though. The utopia is always in the future. You then constantly compare your fantasy utopia with the present moment, with the current reality and it creates misery for you. What else can it do? Fantasies cannot match reality. The mind does not function that way.